Wesley Kew , MA (South Africa)

Clinical Psychologist

In the garden of the mind, what we choose to nurture grows in abundance; let us cultivate the useful and learn from the wild, for in this careful tending, we sculpt our very being. Progress is not always a swift flight, but rather, a measured journey taken step by step.

In my practice as a clinical psychologist, my core belief centers on inspiring individuals to unlock their innate passion, strength, and inner resources. Shifting one's focus towards seeking understanding and solutions is a powerful commitment that initiates a rewarding process of growth and development. This transformative journey is grounded in fostering mutual respect, rapport, empathy, and authenticity. I firmly believe that all healing must occur within a therapeutic relationship – particularly the relationship cultivated with oneself.

Within the clinical setting, my specialization lies in guiding adults and teenagers towards adopting a growth mindset, encouraging them to embrace life's challenges and embark on a journey of self-discovery. Despite life's adversities, individuals possess the power to design their path forward through intentional decision-making. Having worked extensively with various personality disorders, depression, and anxiety in both individual and couples counselling, I have witnessed the profound impact of developing healthy interpersonal relationships, healing old wounds, and practicing self- forgiveness. This process creates the space to explore challenges empathetically; unlocking one's true potential and fostering renewed confidence in embracing life.

My experience extends to working with diverse sporting codes, including soccer, rugby, cricket, hockey, and water polo, collaborating with athletes ranging from school-level teenagers to professionals, international athletes, and Olympians. Drawing from my background as an ex-professional athlete, I comprehend the delicate balance between mental and physical well-being. This insight empowers individuals to perform at their peak, translating hard work into sustainable success. By unlocking the "inner giant", individuals can transcend from good to great, recognizing that consistent effort surpasses innate talent when talent remains dormant.

Works with Clients:
Adolescents (14 yrs+), Adults (18 yrs+)

Languages:
English, Afrikaans

Services Offered

Individual Therapy

Couple Therapy

Relational Therapy

Parental Guidance

Parent Intake

Psychometric Assessment

Treatment Approaches

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy
Schema Therapy
Existential Therapy
Psychodynamic Therapy
Solution-Focused Therapy
Attachment-Based Therapy
Integrative Therapy

Presenting Concerns

General Concerns:

Stress

Anxiety

Panic attacks

Low mood or depression

Personal growth and self-improvement

Adjustment to recent life events or circumstances (Not trauma)

Specific Concerns:

Anger, irritability, emotional outbursts and severe moodswings

Addiction and addictive behaviour (excluding substances)

Addiction and addictive behaviour (only substances)

Issues with body, weight, food, eating,

Sexual functioning and sexual performance

Relationship Concerns:

General dissatisfaction or improvement of romantic relationships

High conflict and aggression concerns in romantic relationships

Affairs, infidelity and intimacy-related concerns in romantic relationships

Divorce, separation and break-ups in romantic relationships

Parenting and parental relationship concerns

Minors:

Minor-related concerns (all minors)

Women's Wellbeing:

Pregnancy, IVF, fertility and pre/post-natal concerns

Trauma:

Violence or abuse by another person (current or recent)

Trauma or traumatic events (past or historic)